What is a small group? Sometimes people call it a “home bible study.” I can’t speak for anyone else, but that term just doesn’t cut it for my small group.
My small group is about more than a “home” – it’s about being a family. In a home, it’s possible to cover up the foibles. When I know someone is coming to my home, I take time to pick up the toys, to sweep the floor, to clean the bathroom, to tidy up. So when my visitor arrives, they see a house in order – but it’s not really real. It’s a façade, a show, a pretending that I have it all together. By contrast, when you are in a family, you get to see everybody up close, warts and all – and you love them anyway! That’s what a small group provides – the opportunity to love and be loved, to know and be known, in all of our imperfections.
My small group is about more than the Bible – it’s about a safe place. Let’s face it. In some ways, the Bible is a hard book to understand. It can be confusing. And it’s easy to say, “I’ll just leave that stuff to the experts, I’ll never be able figure it out.” By contrast, a small group is a safe place where we are encouraged to interact with the Bible. But we aren’t left on our own. By sharing our own experiences of how God impacts our lives with the rest of our group, we find more understanding of the truths of the Bible than we would ever figure out on our own!
My small group is about more than a “study” – it’s a place to experience fellowship. In a study, many times the material studied will make it into our mind (intellectually), but it never makes it into our heart where it can flow out through our actions. By contrast, a small group is a place where fellowship happens. A healthy small group provides opportunities to put your study into practice through service. It provides opportunities to connect on levels other than simply the intellectual; where social, physical, emotional, and spiritual needs are also met.
Sometimes a small group is called a “home bible study”. But it’s about so much more than a home bible study – it’s where life happens together. Regardless of what we call it, a small group is a place where we do life together with people who desire to follow the same path that we are journeying – a path that leads to life in Jesus Christ.
I absolutely LOVE our small group! It is my favorite time of the week, period. My small group has been a lifeline for me more than once. I hope everyone who reads this gets the opportunity to be a part of something like it. It’s amazing.
