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What is a small group?

What is a small group?

What is a small group?  Sometimes people call it a “home bible study.”  I can’t speak for anyone else, but that term just doesn’t cut it for my small group.

My small group is about more than a “home” – it’s about being a family.  In a home, it’s possible to cover up the foibles.  When I know someone is coming to my home, I take time to pick up the toys, to sweep the floor, to clean the bathroom, to tidy up.  So when my visitor arrives, they see a house in order – but it’s not really real.  It’s a façade, a show, a pretending that I have it all together.  By contrast, when you are in a family, you get to see everybody up close, warts and all – and you love them anyway!  That’s what a small group provides – the opportunity to love and be loved, to know and be known, in all of our imperfections.

My small group is about more than the Bible – it’s about a safe place.  Let’s face it.  In some ways, the Bible is a hard book to understand.  It can be confusing.  And it’s easy to say, “I’ll just leave that stuff to the experts, I’ll never be able figure it out.”  By contrast, a small group is a safe place where we are encouraged to interact with the Bible.  But we aren’t left on our own.  By sharing our own experiences of how God impacts our lives with the rest of our group, we find more understanding of the truths of the Bible than we would ever figure out on our own!

My small group is about more than a “study” – it’s a place to experience fellowship.  In a study, many times the material studied will make it into our mind (intellectually), but it never makes it into our heart where it can flow out through our actions.  By contrast, a small group is a place where fellowship happens.  A healthy small group provides opportunities to put your study into practice through service.  It provides opportunities to connect on levels other than simply the intellectual; where social, physical, emotional, and spiritual needs are also met.

Sometimes a small group is called a “home bible study”.  But it’s about so much more than a home bible study – it’s where life happens together.  Regardless of what we call it, a small group is a place where we do life together with people who desire to follow the same path that we are journeying – a path that leads to life in Jesus Christ.

I absolutely LOVE our small group!  It is my favorite time of the week, period.  My small group has been a lifeline for me more than once.  I hope everyone who reads this gets the opportunity to be a part of something like it.  It’s amazing.

SummerSalt 2010 Craftmanship pics

SummerSalt 2010 Craftmanship pics

SummerSalt 2010 Water Day pics

SummerSalt 2010 Water Day pics

Ultimate Volunteers

Ultimate Volunteers

This morning I am thinking back to our first SummerSalt event last night. SummerSalt is our summer event schedule for families, and last night featured Ultimate Air Inflatables. The threat of rain forced us to a change of location from the park down the street into our church building. You wouldn’t believe we could get four of those giant inflatable units, including the 80-foot long obstacle course, into our building, but we made it happen!

And “we” is the operative term. Awesome events like this don’t happen without “Ultimate Volunteers.” Some of them are behind the scenes. You never knew it, but Aaron North, Mitch and Grant Howard, and Reagan and Miles Hoezee were at the church hours before the event, moving hundreds of chairs out of the way to make room for giant air-filled fun. Some of those guys stayed late to help set things up again also, some 6 hours later.

And then we had more than 20 volunteers on hand during the event keeping kids safe, cheering them on, welcoming the unchurched and other first-time guests, and spending time relating to them. WOW! Thanks for all your time and energy devoted to building the Kingdom of God. I appreciate you! (Pictures to come soon….)

SummerSalt Splash

SummerSalt Splash

Summertime is here, school is finishing up, kids are ready to be home, and we are – busier than any other time during the year? Yes, it sometimes feels like that, doesn’t it?  We’ve got graduation open houses, baseball and softball games and practices, swimming lessons, driver’s education classes, family vacations, weekend jaunts to the cottage, picnics and side trips galore.

Our Christian Education team at Jenison Christian Church recognizes that your summer is a busy time.  We’ve responded by intentionally lowering the amount of church programming throughout the summer weeks – and at the same time, trying to raise the level of quality for what we do offer.   Beginning last summer, one way in which we’ve tried to do that is the creation of SummerSalt.

SummerSalt is designed to be an introduction to Jenison Christian Church through a fun activity for your whole family.  It is specifically intended to give you an opportunity to invite your friends, neighbors, and co-workers to a church activity that is “safe”. There won’t be any high pressure sales pitch given to the guests that you bring – just a high quality, fun, safe activity for everyone.  We WILL take a few minutes to explain who we are, and what some of the opportunities at Jenison are for your guests and their families.

We’ll let your guests know that we provide quality children’s programming in Sunday morning PromiseLand, fifty-two weeks a year.  It’s like having Vacation Bible School every Sunday!  We’ll let them know about our Wednesday night children’s activities and our youth group opportunities.  We’ll let them know about our small groups options.  We’ll let them know that we love them and we care about them, and that our purpose to help them to “become passionate followers of Jesus Christ.”

That is, after all, the vision of Jenison Christian Church!  It is a joy to be on this journey with you.  Thanks for coming along!

Your view of “labor”

Your view of “labor”

What’s your view of “labor”?

In the video series we watched last night (the Truth Project), Dr. Del Tackett made several statements about labor and working that made me raise my eyebrows.  He might be right (he’s obviously a lot more intelligent than I), but on the other hand maybe he’s wrong.  At the very least, I didn’t like what he did hermeneutically with a couple of scripture passages…

He purports that God has ordained the following economic system:  a three part system including God, Stewards, and Stuff, in which God owns all the “stuff”, God designates stewards to be accountable for the “stuff, and the stewards steward the “stuff.   He then purports a lesser/lower version of the same system (a three part system including owners, workers, and stuff – Owners own the stuff, owners designate employees to be accountable for the stuff, and the employees steward the stuff, while owners are responsible for the well-being of their employees)

Something strikes me as wrong, even though when I look at the diagrams he drew, it seems hard to argue with it.

Perhaps more than anything, it felt like Dr. Tackett was suggesting that God has ordained a system of capitalism, even though the word “capitalism” never appeared as far as I remember in the 60 minute presentation.

I don’t have any problems with capitalism.  I’m not a socialist, I’m not a communist, I’m not a liberal politically-speaking;  I’m fiscally and socially conservative, and I have been and remain a capitalist.

But I’m not sure that God is as concerned about a country’s economic system as some on the Christian right want Him to be, Dr. Tackett’s arguments notwithstanding.

Granted, there are plenty of hints in the Scripture that point toward working hard, investing well, and doing long-term financial planning.  But there are plenty of hints in the Scripture that point toward sharing, giving generously without expectation of repayment or reward, and living communally.

I am loathe to endorse the idea that God prefers capitalism over socialism or communism.

In fact, I could probably make the argument that more people become followers of Christ living in a communistic system than in a capitalistic system, as miserable as a communistic system is.  Actually, they probably become followers of Christ in large part BECAUSE they live in the misery of a communistic system.  And isn’t becoming a follower of Christ more important in the long-term than what economic system people live in?

Scripturally, I didn’t like what he did with:

1.  Ephesians 6:5-8 – he took Paul’s commands to masters and slaves and applied them to the owner/worker relationship.  I’d have to study the passage, but it certainly feels like a stretch.  On the face of it, I’d rather default to a position that Eph. 6:5-8 is a passage that is no longer culturally relevant.

2.  Leviticus 23:22 (leaving the gleanings in the field for the poor) – he asserted that a) the poor need work, not a handout, and b) it is the duty of owners/employers to provide work opportunities for them.  Essentially, he argued that those who own businesses are obligated to provide opportunities for those who are unemployed and/or poor.

Ok, again, this might be right.  I don’t know.  But this is where the capitalistic side of me rears up and says that Americans live in a system in which virtually anyone who desires to succeed and to provide for themselves and their family can do so (excluding the physically disabled and the mentally disturbed).  I have extremely mixed feelings on the (b) idea above.

Anyway….

Here’s a recent article about Glenn Beck’s recent comments on economic and social systems.  I’m not a Glenn Beck fan, but I’m not his biggest detractor either.  Mostly I just thought it was interesting that his brou-ha-ha came up at the same time that we watched this edition of the Truth Project…  Check out the article here.

What’s your view on labor?

Pastor Appreciation

Pastor Appreciation

Hey, just a quick note to say “Thank You” for the many cards, gifts, thoughts, and prayers during the month of October!  Jenny, Samantha, and I feel very fortunate and blessed to serve with you at Jenison Christian Church.  Thank you so much!  We look forward to working with you for many, many years to come.

Re: Think Orange

Re: Think Orange

Reading a book by Reggie Joiner called Think Orange.  It’s about the impact that church and family need to make on young people.  Interesting point he makes on page. 66-67 – Moses was talking to the Israelites in Deuteronomy 6, “Talk about them when you sit at home, and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.”

Joiner suggests that this should be the rhythm of our relationship with our families…

1.  “when you sit at home” = meal time

2.  “when you walk along the road” = drive time

3.   “when you lie down” = bed time

4.   “when you get up” = breakfast/beginning of the day

The jury is still out on this book, for me, but I do like this idea, that we create an intentional rhythm to our day, with our children.  Not a forced schedule or a passive happy-go-lucky “what will be will be”, but rather a routine that is intentional, that is designed to keep us in touch, to bring us into regular interaction with our family members, and to bring us regular opportunities to teach our children (and to be taught ourselves).

I like that.

Here’s a beauty of a chart that I copied from page 69…

TIMES COMMUNICATION ROLE GOAL
meal time formal discussion teacher establish values
drive time informal dialogue friend interpret life
bed time intimate conversation counselor buIld intimacy
morning time encouraging words coach instill purpose

On the tranferrability of faith – part 2

On the tranferrability of faith – part 2

It must be transferrable.  Because I woke up this morning with a peace that cannot otherwise be explained.  I’ve been anxious, tense, nervous, and scared for the last 2 weeks.  But woke up this morning and the very first thing that went through my head was, “everything’s going to be ok.” 

The second thing that went through my head was, “I’m not worried.”

The third thing was, “that doesn’t make any sense.”

The fourth thing was, “don’t overthink this, just accept that it is so.”

The fifth thing was, “Gosh, I need to brush my teeth, my mouth tastes awful.”

Mom’s surgery went well today.  She will be in the hospital for 3-5 days and will receive a report on the stage of her endometrial cancer in 7-10 days.  I fully expect her to be lobbying to go on vacation with us on August 16.  I doubt that the doctor will let her.  But we can always hope. :-)

Thanks for praying and for sharing your faith with me when I needed it.  If you ever need my little bit of faith, I will be glad to share it with you if you ask.

I’ll continue to keep you posted.

Is my friend’s faith transferrable?

Is my friend’s faith transferrable?

I wonder.

I need it to be.

We found out last week that my mom has cancer.  The doctors will be taking it out on Thursday the 6th of August.

I need more faith, I know that.  My mom and dad seem to be quite matter of fact about the whole thing.  I, on the other hand, am not.  I worry.  I am scared.  I need more faith.

My friend BL emailed a few minutes ago and offered me the “little bit of faith” that he has.  He wondered if that was possible – for his little bit of faith to be transferred to me.

In the New Testament, there is some strange relationship between the faith of a person and the healing power of Jesus.  I was pondering the story of the woman who had been bleeding for 12 years, but now comes to mind the story of the friends of the paralytic who ripped off the roof of the house so they could lower their friend in the midst of the crowded house and get him close to Jesus.

I need to look this up, hold on…………………………………………………..

Yep, Mark 2.  Oh man, what an unbelievable story.  The Bible says that the man’s four friends brought the man to Jesus to be healed but couldn’t get to him because the house was so stinking crowded.  So they went on the top of the house, and dug through the roof and lowered the paralyzed man down to Jesus.  (Totally incidentally, don’t you think Jesus had to be GRINNING as the roof comes off and the guy is lowered down to him?!)  And then v.5 says,  “When Jesus saw their faith, he said to the paralytic, ‘Son, your sins are forgiven.’” (italics mine)

Not the paralyzed guy’s faith – it was the faith of his friends that Jesus acted on.

Can you have enough faith for my mom, and for me, friends?  Will you share it with me?  I need it.

Thanks in advance.

I’ll keep you updated.